Lemon Capy Insights

Alone is Valid (Solitude is Not a Waiting Room)

When I started to write these blogs, it was with the intention of helping people learn through my mistakes and to get, I don’t know, value? Out of the lessons I learned.  To give meaning, not just to me (having learned and continue learning the lessons) but to other people who might have needed to … Read More

Are You Able? (Capacity is Key)

It’s an odd question, asking someone if they are “Able”.  It could be construed as an offensive question, but this is a safe space, so if that question raised your hackles, please take a breath and know this is coming from a place of helpfulness. Smack dab in the middle of my six month dating … Read More

Are You Willing? (Risk It For The Biscuit)

Hey, welcome back you beautiful soul!  How are you feeling? Are you Ready?  Are you Willing?  Well you’re here and I’m hoping you’re getting there, because you’re doing the work, asking the hard questions, saying the answers out loud and healing with those answers.   It’s so beautiful what you’ve done so far and amazing that … Read More

Are You Ready? (The Unsexy Truth About Dating Again)

Why “Getting getting back out there” might be the worst advice you’ve ever received. I want you to ask yourself this one question.   Are you Ready, Willing and Able? If you’re here, you’re in the process of leading up to the “Ready” part, thinking you are “Ready” for what you need to do to find … Read More

Who Am I?

Not to sound like I’m having any kind of existential crisis, but who am I? Let’s start with the easy stuff. I’m a woman in her mid to late 40s, internationally born, traveled, and located.  What does that even mean?  It means I was born in a different country to the one I grew up … Read More